Play the sign game

A playful, beautiful way to stay connected with the ones you love — on the other side.

One of the most joyful and gentle ways to maintain a connection with a loved one who has passed is something I call the Sign Game.

It's simple: ask them for a sign — or create one yourself. You can let them know by speaking silently in your mind or out loud, just as you would in any conversation. The most meaningful signs often connect to something tender and specific: an endearment, a passion, something unmistakably them. A song that suddenly plays on the radio. A favourite flower appearing out of season. A bird landing nearby at just the right moment.

"I feel like he's with me all the time, sending me things."

Those words came from a client during a recent mediumship session — and as soon as she said them, I felt something shift in the room.

My attention had already been drawn to the clock on the wall: 12:34. A favourite combination of mine and my guides — playful, sequential, unmistakable. A little nudge that the moment held meaning.

And then I glanced out the window.

Five dragonflies were circling — just outside, just then. Not something I see every day. Not something I could explain away.

I paused and asked her: "Do dragonflies hold any special meaning for you?"

Her response

She burst out laughing and crying at the same time — "Yes. Yes!"

We sat together in that moment. No words needed. Just the quiet, luminous weight of connection — proof that love doesn't end, it simply changes form.

Being invited into experiences like this is one of the greatest honours of my work. These moments aren't coincidences. They're conversations — if you know how to listen.

So try it. Pick a sign. Tell them. Then pay attention.

You might be surprised how quickly they show up.